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4 2 2/20/2011 11:38:04 PM

Elephantless

ElephantlessFor those of you who have a story to tell but have not sent or received a card, please tell your story here.

 

17 38 2/13/2012 8:23:52 PM

I'm sick about this…I was unkind and I am sorry.

Elephant CardHave you ever said or done something and then later thought, "I can't   believe I could have been so thoughtless"? Maybe you were having a bad   day or some other unrelated event triggered a negative reaction from  you  and now you want to make it right before it becomes a serious rift.

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4 1 2/20/2011 8:47:32 PM

I love how you can save the day but…I need to do this for myself.

Elephant CardAt times our friends and loved ones really do want to help us, but their offer to assist or fix things does not allow us to learn for ourselves or experience life to the fullest.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:40:00 PM

The fight is over…I'm walking away.

Elephant CardSometimes there just is no more to say without causing reasonless damage, and you decide that allowing space and distance is the only healthy thing to do.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:45:00 PM

As the rest of us recover and move on...what about you? I'm still here for you.

Elephant CardHow many times have you gone to a funeral, or watched in despair as a friend's relationship crumbles before your eyes? Within a few weeks though, your life is back to normal, but theirs is not.

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4 2 3/8/2011 4:16:17 PM

Shhh please...I need you to hear me.

Elephant CardWe live in a noisy world and sometimes must ask people respectfully to listen to what we have to say.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:47:43 PM

I've lost all hope...I feel like I can't go on.

Elephant CardAre you sad, lonely, unhappy? There are people who care about you, but you need to let them know you feel empty so they can help you.

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2 1 1/15/2011 1:24:05 AM

It's over now…I've let you go.

Elephant CardReleasing someone who has hurt you, or who you have had conflict with, can be immensely therapeutic and bring you such peace.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:50:08 PM

It's all good...I forgive you.

Elephant CardIt sounds cliche, and we have heard it all before, but it's true. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. In the words of Mark Twain, "Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it"

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:52:10 PM

I need you to know...you hurt me.

Elephant CardYou don't want to make a big deal, or cause more bother than already exists, but you cannot seem to get beyond the pain and you need to speak this truth.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:55:11 PM

If we want to survive…we need to make a change.

Elephant CardHere you are, it's not working but you don't want to throw in the towel so you have only one choice; change.

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:56:19 PM

If you think you know what I should do...please tell me.

Elephant CardPolite yet wise friends at times will wait to be asked for advice not wanting to offend. Do you need another opinion?

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2 1 2/20/2011 3:58:00 PM

I need you...I'm in trouble

Elephant CardAre you living away from loved ones, or simply just feeling distanced because of life's busy way? If you are in trouble, tell someone, they can help you figure things out and carry some of the burden for you.

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:01:23 PM

There's no question...it was my fault

Elephant CardTaking responsibility when you have contributed to a bad situation not only makes you feel better, it lessens the negative drama associated with the event.

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:02:46 PM

I'm confused...what has changed between us?

Elephant CardThat sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, trying desperately to determine why things are so different. Have you done something? Are things coming to an end? Is it time to find out?

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:03:55 PM

I'm exhausted...I can't be happy for both of us.

Elephant CardAre you pouring your energy into a person or relationship that seems to be bottomless, all the while keeping the smile on your face and creating the perfect mask for all around you? That sounds like a lot of work.

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:05:58 PM

Right or wrong...I have to do this.

Elephant CardSometimes when you know, you just know, and regardless of what others say, even lovingly, your heart and your gut must guide you.

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4 3 3/10/2011 4:15:25 PM

Please help me...I'm losing ground.

Elephant CardAre you being swallowed up by worry and despair? Do the foundations of your life seem to be crumbling? Please, please ask someone for help.

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:14:07 PM

I don't know what to do...I'm so afraid.

Elephant CardFear will paralyze all of us at one point or another. Financial pressure, illness, relationships and other hardships can be overwhelming at times. Ask a friend for friendship. Wouldn't you want to know if someone you loved was feeling this way? Wouldn't you help them?

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:15:30 PM

Simply put…you need to let me go.

Elephant CardAt times there is just no more left to do, and nothing left to say but "release me".

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:16:37 PM

You were right…I should have listened to you.

Elephant CardDid you ignore or possibly even scoff at something that was sound advice? Why not be the one to shine some light in and admit it?

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:17:59 PM

I'm alone in my heart...I need to hear your voice.

Elephant CardDo you miss her, him, them, anyone, everyone? Tell them. (They may miss you too.)

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:19:41 PM

My heart is like a rock in my belly…I let you down and I am sorry.

Elephant CardOh that feeling of knowing you have disappointed someone, it is dread mixed with sadness. Why not say you're sorry so your stomach can unknot and you can sleep again.

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:22:00 PM

Enough, enough...I have had enough.

Elephant CardIs it done? Are you finished and there is no turning back? Have you had enough?

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2 1 2/20/2011 4:23:14 PM

If it doesn't work out…you can always come home.

Elephant CardWhat a wonderful thing to hear as you are out in the world making a strong or feeble attempt at independence. It's like getting a hug in the mail.

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2 1 1/19/2011 1:17:42 AM
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